I'm just curious if an dating relationship or an long term marriage relationship could actually work out if you married someone from outside your culture. Say like, if i married an Chinese girl and i am Vietnamese would it actually work out for the both of us ? That would mean that she and i have to speak to each other in English because we can't speak other languages. Do any of you guys think a marriage or an relationship could work out if you get into a relationship with someone outside your culture ?

I'm just curious if an dating relationship or an long term marriage relationship could actually work out if you married someone from outside your culture. Say like, if i married an Chinese girl and i am Vietnamese would it actually work out for the both of us ? That would mean that she and i have to speak to each other in English because we can't speak other languages. Do any of you guys think a marriage or an relationship could work out if you get into a relationship with someone outside your culture ?

I'm just curious if an dating relationship or an long term marriage relationship could actually work out if you married someone from outside your culture. Say like, if i married an Chinese girl and i am Vietnamese would it actually work out for the both of us ? That would mean that she and i have to speak to each other in English because we can't speak other languages. Do any of you guys think a marriage or an relationship could work out if you get into a relationship with someone outside your culture ?

I'm just curious if an dating relationship or an long term marriage relationship could actually work out if you married someone from outside your culture. Say like, if i married an Chinese girl and i am Vietnamese would it actually work out for the both of us ? That would mean that she and i have to speak to each other in English because we can't speak other languages. Do any of you guys think a marriage or an relationship could work out if you get into a relationship with someone outside your culture ?

I'm just curious if an dating relationship or an long term marriage relationship could actually work out if you married someone from outside your culture. Say like, if i married an Chinese girl and i am Vietnamese would it actually work out for the both of us ? That would mean that she and i have to speak to each other in English because we can't speak other languages. Do any of you guys think a marriage or an relationship could work out if you get into a relationship with someone outside your culture ?

My BF and I have been dating over 2 years. We talk so many times about our future, our engagement, and our wedding. We want to have an engagement by the end of december, and our wedding will be happen next year either on March or November of next year. However he talk about it a lots but not making any effort to make it happen. I am so tired of talking to him about it and get to the point that don't want it anymore. We are not young, we both are in early 30 and have stable career.

In our culture (vietnamese) engagement is very important and it take a lot of time to plan. 2 months is not enough to plan and do everything. I wonder what is he thinking? everytime i talk to him about it, he still says it will be on December but i have gave up on that. And don't want to talk about it anymore. My aunt, uncle and everybody ask when we are getting marriage. My parents on the other hand have gave up on it, and so am I.

I have this friend named Steve and he always insults me simon cowell style whenever I talk about my upcoming marriage to this vietnamese girl. Everytime when I say I'm excited to go meet this vietnamese girl in vietnam who my aunt is introducing me to, he says you should be excited about your upcoming divorce. He says your a big sissy who can't get a girl so you get your momma to get you a girl, no girl wants to be with a guy like that. He also says you will cry so much when she leaves you that you will drown and sink like a ship. I told him that this is normal in the vietnamese culture and most girls from vietnam are faithful and they stay married with you no matter what income you make, low or high. I told him that vietnamese girls in vietnam are taught by their parents to get married once only. He says you're better off becoming a prostitute or a hooker because they make good money and all you want from this vietnamese girl is sex and nothing else. This is true and I'm wondering why he insults me like this ?? I know he is copying simon cowell's style of insults.

I have this friend named Steve and he always insults me simon cowell style whenever I talk about my upcoming marriage to this vietnamese girl. Everytime when I say I'm excited to go meet this vietnamese girl in vietnam who my aunt is introducing me to, he says you should be excited about your upcoming divorce. He says your a big sissy who can't get a girl so you get your momma to get you a girl, no girl wants to be with a guy like that. He also says you will cry so much when she leaves you that you will drown and sink like a ship. I told him that this is normal in the vietnamese culture and most girls from vietnam are faithful and they stay married with you no matter what income you make, low or high. I told him that vietnamese girls in vietnam are taught by their parents to get married once only. He says you're better off becoming a prostitute or a hooker because they make good money and all you want from this vietnamese girl is sex and nothing else. This is true and I'm wondering why he insults me like this ?? I know he is copying simon cowell's style of insults.

I'm kind of heartbroken because there is apparently no girls who likes me at all and there are no girls who want to date me. I'm 19 years old and there are girls who would talk to me but when i ask them out they said they only see me as a friend. I don't know whether being an asian or an Vietnamese guy has anything to do with my chances of dating. Sometimes because no girls has ever fallen for me i sometimes feel like crying and I do cry to be honest, only when i feel really bad i shed tears. I've talked to my mother who is vietnamese and she says sometimes things take time and If i have anymore trouble she is willing to help me out by arranging an marriage for me with a girl in my home country vietnam, she says she would ask one of aunts in Vietnam to find my bride. I've asked her If i get to meet my future arranged fiance before marriage and she says yes, She says she would book a plane ticket for my whole family to come over there to meet my bride or fiance to be and at the same time visit Vietnam. Sometimes thinking of what my mother said makes me feel better but sometimes I still feel sad because I can't get a date on my own over here in the states. I've even asked Vietnamese Girls in the states out and they said that they don't like me because they think my family poor even though we're not very poor, We're about average or normal when talking about money. They said they only like rich guys and they said average people like me are going to be lonely for the rest of their lives and become gay. I don't know why people now a days thinks everything is gay. How come there aren't girls who want to date me ?? I would be willing to date any type of girl no matter if she is caucasian, african american or even pakistani girls or even a korean girl if they are intrested in me because i believe love doesn't matter if our skin color is different just as long there is love we can be together. Should I accept my mother's offer of arranging a marriage in vietnam ?? I mean if my mother arranges my marriage then that means I would have a wife immediately.

I'm married to a wonderful wife who is Vietnamese, but her family is a whole other story. I have no problems, but I have taken notices of a few things. The brothers don't get along with other brothers and the same applies with the sisters. The mother does not get along with the father (arraigned marriage). Cousins don't get along with cousins, etc. It's not just the basic family unit, it seems to be Vietnamese society as well. Vietnamese tend to talk behind other people's backs or start drama. It's like there is no harmony and every man for their self. I come from a white community and we really didn't have anything like that. Has anyone taken notice of this?
Maybe I'm just a crazy white guy lol

Marrying a girl from vietnam in an arranged marriage, talked to her a couple of times on the phone. I'm afraid to ask if she knows how to cook. She is so sweet and I'm afraid of asking something that will hurt her feelings.

I asked a question in the marriage section of yahoo answers vietnam international version in vietnamese language, would it show up on the us site ???