My BF and I have been dating over 2 years. We talk so many times about our future, our engagement, and our wedding. We want to have an engagement by the end of december, and our wedding will be happen next year either on March or November of next year. However he talk about it a lots but not making any effort to make it happen. I am so tired of talking to him about it and get to the point that don't want it anymore. We are not young, we both are in early 30 and have stable career.

In our culture (vietnamese) engagement is very important and it take a lot of time to plan. 2 months is not enough to plan and do everything. I wonder what is he thinking? everytime i talk to him about it, he still says it will be on December but i have gave up on that. And don't want to talk about it anymore. My aunt, uncle and everybody ask when we are getting marriage. My parents on the other hand have gave up on it, and so am I.

When I mean Vietnamese I don't mean american born or raise vietnamese or mix Vietnamese because I knew some are very nice and also I'm friends with some of them. The ones I'm talking about are the more like the ones from vietnam. I never went to Vietnam so I don't know but so far all the ones I met are so rude. Also the Vietnamese men I encounter in the past are such pervert and talk shit about their gf to other girls. I felt sorry for this one girl who got pregnant with a Vietnamese man and got treat like trash by her bf and his friends. Also I have a Vietnamese landlord and when I first move in he told me and my bf we can find a roommate to pay for the other room we weren't using but about one week after moving in he rented the room out to a middle age Vietnamese couple with out our consent. We were nice to the new roommates at first and also didn't even mind that they took our stuff out of some cabinets and replace it with theirs since we guess they need some space. But once moved in they have been constantly order us around and been stealing our stuff. Also when I was cooking the vietnamese wife turn off my fire and move my pot right in front of me and start cooking. What a rude bitch. I never met anyone so rude in my whole life. Even after we made it clear we don't want to talk to them they still trying to tell us what to do. What is wrong with these people. The husband also told my bf to clean the kitchen after they used it and my bf told them to fuck off and they said they will call the police. Man I actually lol because it was just so stupid. I know English is not their first language but come on they should know that was stupid to say. So far my experiences with vietnamese fobs haven't been good but still I hope not all of them are like the ones I met.

Does anybody kno what website you can learn Southern Vietnamese for free? or any audio books that teaches that ?Most websites and audio books only teach NorTherN Vietnames.And is it true that Southern n Northern Vietnamese don't understand each other?my bf is Southern Vietnamese fm Ho Chi Minh,he says he doesn't understand Northern Vietnamese,i learnt a little Northern Vietnamese for some reason he does understand a bit

choy ! dạo này Dương xinh gê heng ! Bf của mày đó hả ?

my bf whos vietnamese said this in chat in vietnamese...what does it mean?
(his name) thoung yea men (my name) lam!!!!
please dont use online translaters cuz they dont work.
FIRST PERSON TO GIVE ME A DECENT ANSWER GETS 10PTS

I speak vietnamese and my bf is interested in learning to get closer to my family but every place weve looked at only has english - viet dictionaries that more translate than teach. Does anyone know a good book or place to look for one that is more explanatory?

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